Tired of swiping and blind dates? Take control of your love life! These 10 powerful tips combine Feng Shui, the Law of Attraction, and manifestation to help you attract love and find your soul partner.

By preparing yourself, your home, and your lifestyle, you’ll become a magnet for the love you long for. These steps are powerful, so only start this journey if you’re genuinely ready for a committed relationship. I’ve witnessed firsthand how these techniques have helped countless clients and students find their perfect match; if you’re ready, then I can’t wait to see what these techniques will do for you!

#1 Clear the Energy of Past Relationships 

The first step in Feng Shui is to clear your home of unnecessary objects and stagnant energy. To attract love, let go of anything tied to past relationships—gifts, photos, love letters, or mementos. Holding onto these items keeps you energetically tied to the past. Release them to make space for new love. Even if it is something you LOVE that your ex gave you, release it.

Tip: Donate or recycle unwanted items mindfully, honoring the earth as you let go.

#2 Create Space for Your Future Partner 

Physically and energetically, make room for your future partner. Clear a section of your closet and add eight empty hangers to symbolize, “I am ready for you. There is space in my life for love.” Create equal space in your drawers for your belongings and your future partner’s, and ensure the bathroom has enough space for their personal items.

#3 Use the Power of Pairs 

In Feng Shui, pairs symbolize partnership and harmony. Arrange bedroom items like nightstands, lamps, pillows, and decor in pairs. 

Tip: Ensure items in pairs are balanced in size and energy. For example, if one nightstand has a lamp, the other should, too.

#4 Optimize Your Bedroom for Romance 

Your bedroom is the heart of your romantic life. Remove anything that does not support rest and romance, such as: 

• Work-related items: laptops, files, or exercise equipment.
• Photos of friends and family: this space is for you and your partner.
• Clutter under the bed: keep this area clear for energy to flow freely.

Bed Placement: Position your bed so you can see the door but are not directly in line with it. Avoid sleeping under a window or with a bathroom on the other side of the headboard. Choose a queen-size mattress—it’s ideal for love. If you are using a mattress from a past relationship, cleanse it with Sage.

Tip: Display artwork that suggests romance and intimacy; these artworks can be couples, nudes, or even statues of couples that are dancing, embracing, or being intimate.

#5 Use Colors to Attract Love 

Color plays a powerful role in Feng Shui and interior design.

Here is how to use it in your bedroom:

• Earth tones, beige, taupe, and soft browns for grounding and stability. 
• Greens and teals for growth, vitality, and new beginnings. 
• Light pinks and peaches to attract love and partnership. 
• Touches of red, orange, or yellow for passion and movement (use this fire energy sparingly as accents; think throw pillows or blankets). 

Tip: Create a space that feels neither too feminine nor too masculine, so both partners feel welcomed and honored. 

#6 Activate the Southwest Corner (Love Area)

In Feng Shui, the southwest corner of your home is the area for love and relationships. Enhance this space with:

• Rose quartz crystals: place two pieces together. 
• Peonies: the flower of love and romance.
• Pairs of decor items: candles, figurines, or artworks that represent love.

#7 Incorporate Rose Quartz 

Rose quartz is the ultimate crystal for love, compassion, and healing. Place two pieces on your nightstand, carry one in your purse, or wear it as jewelry near your heart. This crystal helps you radiate love and attract it in return.

#8 Write Affirmations and Gratitude Journaling

Write positive affirmations about love and the qualities you desire in a partner. Place them on your mirror, in your wallet, or under your pillow. Repeat them daily to align your energy with love. Gratitude Journaling: Write down things you’re grateful for, including existing love and positive aspects of yourself, including the aspects you’re struggling to love about yourself.

#9 Prioritize Self-Care and Self-Love 

To attract love, you must first love yourself. Treat yourself with kindness and care: 

• Use luxurious bedding (satin or silk). 
• Wear your best underwear and nightgowns. 
• Create sacred quiet time for yourself—light candles, buy yourself flowers, and practice self-love rituals. 

The Law of Attraction emphasizes that you attract what you are. To draw in a loving partnership, embody the love you seek. Care for yourself in the ways you would like a partner to care for you. This includes prioritizing your physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being. 

Nurture yourself with activities that bring you joy, relaxation, and rejuvenation. This self-care is not selfish; it is essential for creating the loving relationship you desire.

When you fill your own cup, you radiate a confident and loving energy that naturally attracts a partner who will appreciate you.

#10 Write a Letter to Your Future Partner

Write a letter to your future partner, speaking in the present tense as if you are already together. Express gratitude for their presence in your life, highlighting their best qualities. Describe how they make you feel, what you admire about them, and the kind of relationship you share.

Be specific about the qualities you desire—are they kind, adventurous, supportive, communicative?

Speak to them as if you’re already in a committed relationship—whether that is a long-term partnership or marriage, aligning with your desires. For example, you might write:

“My darling husband, I am so grateful for your unwavering support and the way you always make me laugh. I love your kind heart and how you care for our family.” 

Once you have poured your heart out, place the letter under your pillow and sleep with this manifestation at night, allowing the energy of your desires to permeate your subconscious.

You Are Love

To attract love, you need to be, first of all, completely loving to yourself. Be in that vibration of love to receive it, Beloved. Wonderful things are ahead!

Ready to unlock the secrets of Feng Shui and the Law of Attraction to attract love and boost your self-love? Join my Feng Shui Your Life course today and start experiencing the transformative power of these powerful manifestation techniques!